CUT THEM OFF❌

When you see the title of this blog post, you are thinking in your head what will come out of this and all it's about but if you deeply think, just by looking at the title you should understand. To cut off means to terminate or something that stops a flow! Learning to cut people off takes a whole lot of emotional and physical activities. Most times when people see stuff like this, friendship comes to their minds. Like cutting friends off when they ain't working in line with your values but there is a lot more to my version of "CUT THEM OFF". I'll be talking about this in sections. Firstly, Cut Friends Off. Friends have a great impact or influence on us. Before choosing a friend; You should have things in common. Your friend(s) should impact in your life positively. Your friend(s) should support you when necessary. Your friend(s) should tell you the truth at all times.

If your friend(s) lack these qualities, you should try to change them or CUT THEM OFF. I mean why should you be friends with someone who doesn't possess all or some of these qualities. Learn to say NO when necessary. There's a saying, "The ones you call FRIENDS are your ENEMIES". Before someone can become your enemy, he has to be your friend. He has to know things about you and how to attack you. There are friends who possess the above qualities but still don't wish you well, so choose wisely. Secondly, Cut that Relationship Off. In our world today, there are a lot of stories about DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Men beating their women to the point of death and vice versa. If that relationship or marriage stresses you, doesn't make you happy, doesn't keep you fulfilled, CUT THEM OFF. Don't stay unfulfilled or unloved out of pity or fear. If that person doesn't meet up to your standard and your expectations in a relationship, learn to LET GO. There are some relationships that if the man is not working the family won't eat, providing for the family shouldn't be one sided both parents are equally responsible for the kids they birthed! If the man is not providing & he isn't trying at all, the wife should leave & vice-versa the husband can let go of a liability called wife he married! Thirdly, CUT OFF JEALOUSY. Take out every spirit of jealousy from you! Jealousy is dangerous. It takes out every piece of good in you. It makes you think of weird things to do to others. Jealousy can make you kill. Jealousy brings hate. Jealousy makes you look weak and stupid. CUT IT OFF. Set your standards and values. Uphold your dignity and virtue. Refuse that which will ruin you.