Cheating
- Rola Ademola
- Jun 3, 2019
- 2 min read
Cheating is an act of deception, being unfaithful and being adulterous.
Cheating is a thing that has been happening even before the birth of this generation. It is common in many relationships.
Cheating causes emotional distress.
Cheating is complex when it comes to definining.However, when someone violates a partner's expectations, the partner feels betrayed.
My question is why do people cheat on their partners?
One of the major reason is LACK OF SEXUAL SATISFACTION.
Most people (men and women) look forward to improving their sex lives. They enjoy other form of mutual activities but sex with this person isn't working out.
FALLING OUT OF LOVE WITH YOUR PARTNER.
The things your partner used to do to excite you or to give your relationship life and hope has diminished or no longer excites you. When you begin to feel this way, you lose interest in your partner and start to fall out of love with this person.
FALLING IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE NEW.
Women mostly fall victim of this category. Women easily fall for the words that seem true but are untrue. People start loving someone other than their partner because of some of these reasons- Their partner isn't meeting up to their emotional expectations, Their partner doesn't seem good enough for them again, The new person has promised them what their partner cannot do.
WANTING MORE THAN YOUR PARTNER CAN OFFER.
In a relationship, one has to be satisfied. For instance, if your partner gives you happiness but to you it isn't enough or up to your expectations, you both should try to work it like mature minds and not going in search of your so called happiness in another person other than your partner.
REVENGE
Some people cheat not because they want to but because they want to seek revenge from their partner. This is definitely the craziest thing to do because it worsens matters.
When your partner cheats on you, try to talk things with him or her but if you know it has caused too much emotional damage for you, pls walk out of the relationship.
It isn't a crime to stop loving someone. Though it is hard but pls if you begin to lose interest in your partner it is better to tell him or her rather than CHEATING.
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