Being in Love❤ and Unhappy😔
- Rola Ademola
- Jun 3, 2019
- 2 min read
I assume we all know what it takes to be in love. Being in love takes a lot of courage 'cause in love one needs to be accepted and wanted totally. Emotions flunctuate and settle when one is in love.
Being happy on the other hand is a fortuitous elegance. There's this feeling that comes with being happy. You feel complete even when you are not. You hide the sorrow and grief.
It's a different thing to be in love and a different thing to be happy in love. Being in love as I have earlier described is feeling wanted and accepted then being happy in love is having this feeling of trust and bliss in love. If there is no trust in a relationship, the love starts to diminish and insecurities set in. When these sort of things start to happen, happiness begins to turn to melancholy.
Going back to the title of this blog post, BEING IN LOVE AND UNHAPPY. You need trust, consistency, communication and nourishment to keep or lead a happy relationship. When all or some of these things are absent, the love dies.
Let me tell you guys the story of a girl
There's a girl (name withheld). Beautiful, tall and dark. She's successful and hard-working. She is in a relationship with a light skinned, tall and handsome working class guy.
When they started dating, everything seemed perfect and amazing. Almost all the girls wanted their type of relationship. They loved each other endlessly.
Suddenly, the communication became poor, the guy stopped checking on the girl like he used to, he stopped keeping his promises, he stopped doing all of the things he used to do to make her feel on top of the world. The girl on the other hand, tried her best to make things right but it looked like the guy had his eyes somewhere else. She tried so hard to make him want her more but all efforts proved abortive.
Babe made up her mind, she has accepted her fate and keeps hoping and praying that one day things will get better with them.
Babe is in love but she isn't happy in the relationship.
What do you advice that such a girl does?
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